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Feb 18, 2008

Fall In Love At The First Sight

Do you believe if you can fall in love to somebody at the first sight ? Maybe you don’t. But maybe you are one of some that have even experienced it.

Here are some signs :

1. You will got a kind of feeling that you are so closed with her or him, even that is your very first time know each other.

2. You will get a relax feeling when he or she is around you.

3. You feel happy when thinking of her or him.

4.You think that both of you will have a long term relationship, maybe can reach marriage.

5. You both can get along very well.

6. Can communicate with each other well.

7. You can do anything just to meet her or him.

8. You don’t like other talks bad things about her or him.

Feb 13, 2008

Laugh For Love

The Hormone Warning

The Hormone Hostage knows that there are days in the month when all a man has to do is open his mouth and he takes his life in his own hands!

This is a handy guide that should be as common as a driver's licence in the wallet of every husband, boyfriend, or significant other!

DANGEROUS: What's for dinner?
SAFER: Can I help you with dinner?
SAFEST: Where would you like to go for dinner?
ULTRASAFE: Have some chocolate

DANGEROUS: Are you wearing that?
SAFER: Wow, you look good in brown.
SAFEST: WOW! Look at you!
ULTRASAFE: Have some chocolate

DANGEROUS: What are you so worked up about?
SAFER: Could we be overreacting?
SAFEST: Here's my pay cheque
ULTRASAFE: Have some chocolate

DANGEROUS: Should you be eating that?
SAFER: You know, there are a lot of apples left..
SAFEST: Can I get you a glass of wine with that?
ULTRASAFE: Have some chocolate

DANGEROUS: What did you do all day?
SAFER: I hope you didn't over-do it today.
SAFEST: I've always loved you in that robe!
ULTRASAFE: Have some more chocolate.

Money talks...but Chocolate sings.

Jan 31, 2008

Eat Your Ways To Love !

Ever pay attention to you guys the way how they finish their meals when at your home,or in a restaurant ? Maybe no,just because you have very used to it. Come on,let's dig out their personality through their style of eating...especially when they are finishing their fried rice.

1. They dig the food from the front side to back side of the plate,no mess on it.
These people are very organized and a tidy type. If they choose their food,then they are a fussy one. They will do their things one by one and systematically. Mess up their house and things,and you will get chased out from theirs. Sometimes they are not flexible,but you can depend on them to help you. They are quite a straight forward and no shortcut way.

2. Same style with no.1 but from back side to front side of plate.
They can as organized as the no.1 type. Also can as fussy as them. But they can do their way up side down,from back to front. They got a bit more creative character. Don't mess them too. Sometimes they still can tolerate messy,but they can blow up when they got mood swing.
3. All in one. They mix all the food on their plate,mix the sauce and frenchfries,or mess up the food with its sauce. They are a flexible one. They are not a fussy guys and won't demand too much from others. They are quite a relax dudes and got no very strict rules to applied to their rooms and sometimes,live. The good thing is they can accept you the way you are. Some notes is if they leave their plates untidy,or still have some food left on it,chance is you'll have extra housework. They can be very untidy.

4. Food is placed seperately. Beans aside,rice aside,sauce aside,prawns aside.. This is a fussy type. The good thing is they know what they are doing,and they will do it their way and won't let others influence them. They will finish their work one by one. Sometimes their are too cautious and takes time to make it. A not very good thing is they are a perfectionist. To be perfect is good,but remember that we are human. Sometimes mistake can be occurred.

5. They never finish their dishes. They put lot kinds of food on their tables,but only taste them a bite. These fellows are happy go lucky ones. They seldom worry to themselves. They are a quite satisfied to themselves ones. They love parties. Just go out with them and you will have lots happy hours. They are also a quick-get-bored. They can do their things and in a half way they leave it because they got their interest faded. Sometimes you can't depend on them when you need help. They can be afraid of the commitment,too.

6. They finish their dishes, and finish yours. Don't get them wrong. They are not greedy. They can't stand to watch a leftover food to be thrown away. They don't like to waste the food. They are very practical type. They like to save things,water and money. With them around, you won't need to worry if you will short of food or money. Sometimes these people have go through a hardship and they manage all their life carefully,include their food. Except they stare at your food when you even haven't started to dig,they are a very thoughtful people.

7. They eat nonstop. Hey, this is a sign of obesity. They will get diseases if they don't want to change their eating style.

Jan 23, 2008

Laugh For Love

Gender Fun


You may not know that many non-living things have a gender; For example...

1) Freezer Bags -- They are Male, because they hold everything in, but you can see right through them.

2) Copiers -- They are Female, because once turned off, it takes a while to warm them up again. It's an effective reproductive device if the right buttons are pushed, but can wreak havoc if the wrong buttons are pushed.

3) Tyre -- Male, because it goes bald and it's often over-inflated.

4) Hot Air Balloon -- Male, because, to get it to go anywhere, you have to light a fire under it, and of course, there's the hot air part.

5) Sponges -- female because they're soft, squeezable and retain water.

6) Web Page -- Female, because it's always getting hit on.

7) Subway -- Male, because it uses the same old lines to pick people up.

8) Hourglass -- Female, because over time, the weight shifts to the bottom.

9) Hammer -- Male, because it hasn't changed much over the last ast 5,000 years, but it's handy to have around.

10) Remote Control -- Female ....Ha ! You thought it'd be male. But consider this -- it gives a man pleasure,he'd be lost without it, and while he doesn't always know the right buttons to push, he keeps trying.



The History of Valentine's Day

Every February, across the country, candy, flowers, and gifts are exchanged between loved ones, all in the name of St. Valentine. But who is this mysterious saint and why do we celebrate this holiday? The history of Valentine's Day -- and its patron saint -- is shrouded in mystery. But we do know that February has long been a month of romance. St. Valentine's Day, as we know it today, contains vestiges of both Christian and ancient Roman tradition. So, who was Saint Valentine and how did he become associated with this ancient rite? Today, the Catholic Church recognizes at least three different saints named Valentine or Valentinus, all of whom were martyred.

One legend contends that Valentine was a priest who served during the third century in Rome. When Emperor Claudius II decided that single men made better soldiers than those with wives and families, he outlawed marriage for young men -- his crop of potential soldiers. Valentine, realizing the injustice of the decree, defied Claudius and continued to perform marriages for young lovers in secret. When Valentine's actions were discovered, Claudius ordered that he be put to death.

Other stories suggest that Valentine may have been killed for attempting to help Christians escape harsh Roman prisons where they were often beaten and tortured.

According to one legend, Valentine actually sent the first 'valentine' greeting himself. While in prison, it is believed that Valentine fell in love with a young girl -- who may have been his jailor's daughter -- who visited him during his confinement. Before his death, it is alleged that he wrote her a letter, which he signed 'From your Valentine,' an expression that is still in use today. Although the truth behind the Valentine legends is murky, the stories certainly emphasize his appeal as a sympathetic, heroic, and, most importantly, romantic figure. It's no surprise that by the Middle Ages, Valentine was one of the most popular saints in England and France.

While some believe that Valentine's Day is celebrated in the middle of February to commemorate the anniversary of Valentine's death or burial -- which probably occurred around 270 A.D -- others claim that the Christian church may have decided to celebrate Valentine's feast day in the middle of February in an effort to 'christianize' celebrations of the pagan Lupercalia festival. In ancient Rome, February was the official beginning of spring and was considered a time for purification. Houses were ritually cleansed by sweeping them out and then sprinkling salt and a type of wheat called spelt throughout their interiors. Lupercalia, which began at the ides of February, February 15, was a fertility festival dedicated to Faunus, the Roman god of agriculture, as well as to the Roman founders Romulus and Remus.

To begin the festival, members of the Luperci, an order of Roman priests, would gather at the sacred cave where the infants Romulus and Remus, the founders of Rome, were believed to have been cared for by a she-wolf or lupa. The priests would then sacrifice a goat, for fertility, and a dog, for purification.

The boys then sliced the goat's hide into strips, dipped them in the sacrificial blood and took to the streets, gently slapping both women and fields of crops with the goathide strips. Far from being fearful, Roman women welcomed being touched with the hides because it was believed the strips would make them more fertile in the coming year. Later in the day, according to legend, all the young women in the city would place their names in a big urn. The city's bachelors would then each choose a name out of the urn and become paired for the year with his chosen woman. These matches often ended in marriage. Pope Gelasius declared February 14 St. Valentine's Day around 498 A.D. The Roman 'lottery' system for romantic pairing was deemed un-Christian and outlawed. Later, during the Middle Ages, it was commonly believed in France and England that February 14 was the beginning of birds' mating season, which added to the idea that the middle of February -- Valentine's Day -- should be a day for romance. The oldest known valentine still in existence today was a poem written by Charles, Duke of Orleans to his wife while he was imprisoned in the Tower of London following his capture at the Battle of Agincourt. The greeting, which was written in 1415, is part of the manuscript collection of the British Library in London, England. Several years later, it is believed that King Henry V hired a writer named John Lydgate to compose a valentine note to Catherine of Valois.

In Great Britain, Valentine's Day began to be popularly celebrated around the seventeenth century. By the middle of the eighteenth century, it was common for friends and lovers in all social classes to exchange small tokens of affection or handwritten notes. By the end of the century, printed cards began to replace written letters due to improvements in printing technology. Ready-made cards were an easy way for people to express their emotions in a time when direct expression of one's feelings was discouraged. Cheaper postage rates also contributed to an increase in the popularity of sending Valentine's Day greetings. Americans probably began exchanging hand-made valentines in the early 1700s. In the 1840s, Esther A. Howland began to sell the first mass-produced valentines in America.

According to the Greeting Card Association, an estimated one billion valentine cards are sent each year, making Valentine's Day the second largest card-sending holiday of the year. (An estimated 2.6 billion cards are sent for Christmas.)

Approximately 85 percent of all valentines are purchased by women. In addition to the United States, Valentine's Day is celebrated in Canada, Mexico, the United Kingdom, France, and Australia.

Valentine greetings were popular as far back as the Middle Ages (written Valentine's didn't begin to appear until after 1400), and the oldest known Valentine card is on display at the British Museum. The first commercial Valentine's Day greeting cards produced in the U.S. were created in the 1840s by Esther A. Howland. Howland, known as the Mother of the Valentine, made elaborate creations with real lace, ribbons and colorful pictures known as "scrap".

Source : History.com

Jan 18, 2008

Your Love Problem

Help ! My Boyfriend Left Me !

Ask : I'm single.29. I'm desperate to marry my boyfriend of 2 years because of my age. My mom keep asking us the preparation. When I discussed this matter with him, he changed and seemed don't like to talk about this topic. 1 month later we broke up. I'm a confident girl with good position in a big company. How to get rid of my broken heart ? How to find a man that really serious to build a family with me ? (Anonymous)


Answer : If he don't want to marry you,then let him go. You don't deserve a man that got no intention to share his life with you. You don't want to suffer in a marriage with a man who are forced to married you,do you ? You should be happy to know the reality that he don't want to marry you. Earlier is better. You don't need to waste your time with this guy and can find a better one to share your dream. Just move on and find your Mr.Right. Date some guys to find which one is suitable and serious about marriage. Just take it easy,dear. Don't too desperate and ask him to marry you at the first date. He will run away ! Just take your time and slowly build the relationship. Remember,don't just because you think you are quite old already then you need to marry. Marriage is for your lifetime happiness. Make sure you walk down the aisle in the name of love.

Your Love Problem

Forbidden crush

Ask : I've married for 4 years and have 2 lovely kids. I still love my hubby. But recently I've found that I'm attracted to my headmaster at the tuition where I'm teaching at. He is still single. My heart will beat very fast and I blushed when I stay near to him like never falling in love before. My mind is full with his image at home. Please tell me what to do ! (Jane - not the real name)
Answer : Forget him ! While it is normal to attracted to another man after marriage, your hubby and kids deserve your love,care and attention. Never have a thought to possess that forbidden feeling. Remember that you have a happy marriage that a lot people wish to sacrifice anything to find it. Just take all those fall in love symptoms and replace that guy with your hubby. Think about what have made you fall in love with him at the first place. Light up the passion and see the different. And try to avoid your headmaster for certain time until you are prepared to see him without blushed anymore.

Your Love Problem

He Love Me Not

Ask : My boyfriend left me alone on last new year countdown party. He told me his car was already full with his friends and couldn't pick me. He brought along her younger sister. I wept all the night when others were happily hang out. Another thing is when we went shopping and he saw his friends,he would push me aside and pretended he didn't know me like i was a stranger. Tell me if he still love me or not. ( Joel )

Answer : His sister and friends are more important than you. For him,you are nothing but the last one he will come to if he has no friends beside him. He even didn't care how you pass your new year eve. And, nobody will push aside their loved one. Don't keep these problem yourself. He thought that you were agree with his attitude. Confront him about this matter and ask his priority. Tell him that is really hurt you. Tell him all your feeling. He will hear if he loves you. If not,then you will expect He Love Me Not similar things come to you soon and hurt you again and again.

Jan 16, 2008

Laugh For Love

Be Careful What You Wish For

A man walks into a restaurant with a full-grown ostrich behind him, and as he sits down, the waitress comes over and asks for their order.

The man says, "I'll have a hamburger, fries and a coke," and turns to the ostrich. "What's yours?" "I'll have the same," says the ostrich.

A short time later the waitress returns with the order. "That will be $6.40 please," and the man reaches into his pocket and pulls out exact change for payment.

The next day, the man and the ostrich come again and the man says, "I'll have a hamburger, fries and a coke," and the ostrich says, "I'll have the same." Once again the man reaches into his pocket and pays with exact change.

This becomes a routine until late one evening, the two enter again. "The usual?" asks the waitress. "No, this is Friday night, so I will have a steak, baked potato and salad," says the man. "Same for me," says the ostrich.

A short time later the waitress comes with the order and says, "That will be $12.62." Once again the man pulls exact change out of his pocket and places it on the table.

The waitress can't hold back her curiosity any longer. "Excuse me, sir. How do you manage to always come up with the exact change out of your pocket every time?" "Well," says the man, "several years ago I was cleaning the attic and I found an old lamp. When I rubbed it a Genie appeared and offered me two wishes. My first wish was that if I ever had to pay for anything, just put my hand in my pocket, and the right amount of money would always be there." "That's brilliant!" says the waitress. "Most people would wish for a million dollars or something, but you'll always be as rich as you want for as long as you live!" "That's right! Whether it's a gallon of milk or a Rolls Royce, the exact money is always there," says the man.

The waitress asks, "One other thing, sir, what's with the ostrich?" The man sighs, pauses, and answers, "My second wish was for a tall chick with long legs who agrees with everything I say!"

Man, Boost Your Confidence!

How to find a confidence ? You can't find it anywhere, but inside you. You got it ! But you don't know how to use it. Learn how to boost and improve your confidence,step by step. Don't expect a miracle happens in one day !

  1. Do or die .Come on,guys. Don't put these words in your thinking. Everything has its first steps,its first experience. Expect the failure. You will be better and better at the second steps,third and fourth and so on. You will know where is the mistake and find the way to fix it. Accept the failure as a part of human being. You won't die if you have done mistake,right ?
  2. First step is already half of success. If you've never done anything, how do you expect the result ? If you want to do something, it's good to know enough thing and prepare for it. But all you need is bold. Encourage yourself to make the first step. It is the most difficult one to start. But once you start, it is easier for you a lot.
  3. Make friends. Get out from your shell. Give your best nice smile to people around you. You will get back. Once you smile, the world will smile with you. Believe it ! Just say something good about them. Make a short conversation can do. Get interaction with them. Start from your neighbor first,maybe. Find someone who has same interest with you. Then you can talk a lot because you know what you talk about. Slowly,you will gain your confidence.
  4. Learning by doing. Don't expect the perfect things come. This world is not perfect. We make it better step by step. Practice makes perfect. Focus on what you want to do,prepare before action, and do it ! Don't think the result first. Remember, just do it !
  5. Fix your body language. Learn a good body language, you can find it from books,or take some course. Sit and stand properly. Speaking and control your body and hands movements. Practice your smile and movement in front of the mirror. You can find your weakness there. Remember, find them not to make you feel intimidate. But you must try to make it better. Practice it a lot and fix it. You know which one is suitable for you.
  6. Care of your self. Pay attention to what you wear. Make sure it is neat and clean. Take care of your skin,teeth and hair. Give them a healthy look. Your confidence will boost by itself when you see you are in a nice pack.
  7. Exercise. Jogging or go to gym. Swimming or karate. Do whatever you love. Put your body at its highest stage of fitness. Your brain will stay alert. You will get a good spirit.
  8. Positive thinking. Maintain this when something bad is happened to you. Look around you, every success people have ever failed. Don't believe ? Find some and ask them. Or you can read biography of success icons.
  9. Jot down what you have reached. Write it in a paper,the blessing,the good things you have. What good personality you have,friendly,good looking,have a warm heart,listening ears,generous ? You find that you got so many goodness inside you.
  10. Learn new skills. You will find a new exciting experience. Enjoy it. You will also can meet new people and new environment. They don't know anything about you. You can start from a very beginning. They won't expect perfect performance from you. Develop you confidence with them. Try to communicate with them.

Jan 15, 2008

Sex Talk , Anyone ?

Sexual Transmitted Diseases : They are hiding inside your love

You love your partner. You wish to stay around 24 hours a day,if you can. Hug her,kiss her, guys, you have a lot wild imagination. You want to bring her to your bed. Gals, how about you ? Your mind is full of him inside. Your heart is beating oh so hard. You feel like you stop breathing when you see his smile.

Ok, you can't live without him. You love to have sex with him. He is so great. Guys, your lady is so sexy and hot in your bedroom. You keep repeat that hot sessions. Again and again. It's true hot. But just be aware of the sexual transmitted diseases or STDs. They come together with your love. Can you live with it ? I don't think so.

STDs
can spread to both men and women. They go through human's body by sexual contact either genital,rectum or oral. Pregnant women spread the diseases to their fetus. Some of these can be cured, but some are very dangerous and can cause genital warts,such as HIV, genital herpes and human papillomavirus (HPV).
These disease can be spread by people who don't know they have got infected before,because some won't show symptom in the earliest stage.

Save Sex First !

  1. Delay having sex if you are not physically and emotionally prepared. Make sure you only have sex to each other. Talk and discuss about save sex with your partner. Only have one sex partner at a time. You will be exposed to all these STDs if you have more than one sex partner and your risk is higher.
  2. Use condom. It protects you from STDs. Be careful with the tearing of your genital skin. It also can transmit the diseases. Use a water based lubricants to prevent it happens before sexual activity. It can help you prevent the tearing because of lack of lubrication during the intercourse.
  3. Be responsible. If you have a symptoms of STDs, avoid sexual contacts. Go and see your doctor. Earlier is better.
Here is a list of symptom of STDs.

If you are sexually active, have more than one sex partner at a time, like to have some wild sessions, just pay attention if you got one or more of this symptom continuously.
  • fever : Herpes Simplex Virus (HSV), Chlamydia, Gonorrhea
  • Hair loss : Syphilis
  • Itching on the body : Pubic lice, Scabies
  • Itching or tingling on genital area : HSV, HPV, Pubic lice, Scabies
  • Flu-like symptom : HSV, Syphilis
  • Lower abdominal or rectal pain,unusual vaginal bleeding,vaginal discharge : Chlamydia, Gonorrhea
  • Painful urination : HSV, Chlamydia, Gonorrhea
  • Sore vulva : HSV, Gonorrhea
Enjoy your sex experience,but be alert, be responsible to your body and your partner. You can make it different.

Source : Yahoo

What Men Like From You, Gals !

10 things men expect from women. List it !

  1. Stop nagging. We just don't like it.
  2. Let us enjoy our football match on the TV peacefully.
  3. Not an over dosage makeup and dresses. Just keep it natural.
  4. Don't keep asking us your body size - we mean : fat or not.
  5. Enjoy your food when having meal with us.
  6. Impress my mom.
  7. Once in a while let us window shopping - beauty chicks. Believe us,we just see, don't touch.
  8. Let us wear our favorite 10-year-old jeans. Let us be the way we are.
  9. Don't lecture us about our mistakes and weakness.
  10. We just need your love.

What Women Like About You, Guys !

10 things that women expect from men... Check it out !

  1. The six pack (ummph..) and muscles.
  2. Remember our birthday and anniversary.
  3. Send flower without reasons.
  4. Whisper 'I Love You' (ow! so sweet) in our ears.
  5. Not take control TV remote and channels.
  6. Admit mistakes.
  7. Accompany us shopping whole day without nagging.
  8. Never throw things,clothes or socks everywhere in the house.
  9. Understand when we say 'Nothing', it means 'Something'.
  10. Share the houseworks with us.

Jan 13, 2008

Psst! I Tell You A Secret ...

Sexual experiences through life are always kept in the darkest drawer,or on the highest shelf,so don't be so quick to judge his past experience,and simply 'replace' it with one that you think works better,as you probably know very little about it.


Source : For Him Magazine

Jan 12, 2008

10 Signs Of Material Girl

Find out if yours is a material one,if :

  1. She only shows sweet smile if you drive an expensive car to her house.
  2. She asks how many credit card you have and the limit.
  3. She keeps asking the amount of your salary,bonus and allowance at the first date.
  4. She only wants diamond rings,not silver rings.
  5. She keeps asking money from you.
  6. Asking you buy expensive things each time you go out with her.
  7. Keeps talking about money,posh club membership,and compare the things she has to her friends.
  8. No money no love is her slogan.
  9. She won't open the door if you wear no branded stuffs.
  10. She leaves you when you got no money.

10 Ways To Escape From Your Date (Just For Girls)

You think you are dating a wonderful guy. But, he is so yuck! Dirty, not gentle or speaking while eating till the food is spill around the dining table. He snorted when laughing. Or just not your type. Spoil your date with these !
1. Spill your drink or soup to your dress. Tell him you have to go back home and want to be sent by a taxi. If you are dare enough, just tell him you want to go to the washroom. Then you just leave that place yourself. Let him wait till the restaurant close.
2. Tell him you have a boyfriend already and he love you so much that he will give a blow to guys who date you. Give him a hint that your boyfriend is a weightlifter or a boxer.
3. Tell him you are a lesbian and you hate man.
4. Act like as if you got a short term memory loss. Ask his name and why you can be there with him. Make some noise and go home by taxi.
5. Tell him you got a strange disease and can spread to other people.
6. Tell him you got a genetic problem and want to marry as soon as possible. With some notes that your kids will inherit that problem.
7. Eat rudely and speak with mouthful of food. Make noise with your cutlery.
8. Tell him you love money and ask him how much money he has in his saving account.
9. Yawn repeatedly when he is speaking. Tell him he is so boring.
10. Tell him he is the last choice of your date list.

Jan 10, 2008

A Wow (!) First Impression

Smile
A very first thing that you must do. A sincere smile can warm people's heart. But don't smile too long until your nerves cramped. It's not funny.
Eye contact
Maintain good eye contact that show you respect you date. Don't look anywhere when he or she is talking to you. But it doesn't mean that you have to stare at your date nonstop. That will make them scare.
Handshake
A firm handshake can assure you date that you are a confidence person. Don't shake to hard unless you want to make an aggressive impression.
Good dress
Dress well and suitable with the theme of your date,don't wear swimsuits to a posh restaurant. For girls, wear a good and right make up is a must.
Good body language
You do not need to talk,your body language shows all. A good one shows your good personality. Sit and walk properly,maintain a good posture of your body.
Confident voice
Don't scream when talking. Maintain a lower tone of your voice will show that you are confident and take control of yourself. They will assume you are still not matured if you talking like a little girl from your auntie's house.

Jan 8, 2008

7 Days To Fix Your Broken Heart

You just need 7 days to fix it,and be ready to find the new love !
- Day One : Your day of blue
Feel tired ? No appetite ? Feel like to cry ? Whatever you want to do,even lock yourself whole day in you room,just do it. Switch off your mobile phone if necessary. You need to calm down after the blow.
- Day Two : Dispose and burn it
Take out all your ex's gifts, include the photos and break the mug that written your both names with love. Write down in a piece of paper your ex's name. Dig a hole and put all the things inside. Say good bye to your past and burn the paper. Throw it inside the hole and let it burn all the contents. That symbolizes the disappearing of your past and you'll never look back forever.
- Day Three : Pamper yourself
Give your hair a good treatment and new haircut,do some facial. Go to the spa or sauna. You need it ! Just pamper yourself. Find a different you after these. To see a wonderful hairstyle and a fresh glowing skin of your face, you will feel like a born baby.
- Day Four : Work out
Give a new shape of your body. Go to the gym, swimming or just do some yoga. Those will heal your broken heart. You will feel better after sweating.
- Day Five : Go shopping
Buy some new clothes you want to wear for so long but your ex didn't like it. You can also buy some sexy underwear. Just feel sexy for yourself. Buy whatever you like but remember,don't blow up your credit card limit.
- Day Six : Call your friends
Find them and hang out. Maybe you didn't see them for long time already just because your ex didn't like them. Tell them you are ready to having fun with them. With the new you, wear along your new dresses, find the confident that has lost before.
- Day Seven : Celebrate your freedom
Go to your favorite cake shop and buy some cakes. Or buy some flowers and send to yourself. Just celebrate your freedom. Put a candle on the cake,sing some songs and blow the candle. You just free from that boring relationship. You are available now and you can dating with the guys or girls you want as many as you like. It's cool, right ?

Still Can Not Find Your Love ?

You have been going to anywhere. Clubbing,gyms,workplaces,church, or even you have asked helps from the matchmakers, but you still do not know where is your soul mate. Just follow these 5 steps, and voila! you got it.
1. Learn to love yourself.
You deserve the best. Give the best thing for yourself. Your body deserves a good health. Work out at least three times a week. Get a good diet. Dress good and neat. Do not consume drugs. If you don't know how to love yourself,how can you love your man or your woman and ask them to love you ? If you feel do not deserve the best, then you will expect the second hand thing comes to you.
2. Just relax and enjoy yourself.
Slow down your pace,guys! You can continue to surf the gyms,clubbing or anywhere,but don't do it just to get the attentions of your opposite sex. Just enjoy what you are doing at the moment. When you don't show that attention and just concentrate at the musics in the pub or work out at the gym,they will find you are so confident,natural and attractive. Sometimes you don't need to work hard,dear. People love the original ones!
3. Be yourself.
Don't change yourself if you don't like it. It can be a time bomb if you pretend to become another personality. Just wait it to explode,and you lose all. Just wear your jeans although he loves girl with pink skirt. Continue to watch your football no matter she hates it. If he or she really is your soul mate, they will accept you what you are. Anyway, can you be a pretender forever ?
4. Be prepared to find some Mr. or Mrs. Wrongs.
Don't expect to meet the Mr. or Mrs. Right at the very first date and drag him or her to the aisle of the church. You will find some are weird, show off or stingy,maybe. Or you find out that he is not your type after hang out with him several times. Just stay cool. Make lots of friends is encouraged before you decide to stick to him or her. You can compare and choose the best one for you. If you don't meet the wrong one, then you won't know which one is your Mr. or Mrs. Right !
5. Be a happier you.
Do whatever you like and make you happy. Hang out with your friends,or just laugh together with your siblings at the cafe. If you happy with your life,you will happy with what you have now. Even you still do not find your soul mate. Believe it or not,sometimes fate makes it happen. You will meet him or her at the right place and the right time. Maybe next year. Maybe tomorrow. Who knows ? So,just live your life to the fullest joy. This is your life, anyway. So don't fake it.